Japanese Snubs

Lately I've only been getting any attention on A4A from non-Japanese and it's kind of starting to bother me.  It's not that I'm not attracted to non-Japanese, it's just that it's highlighting a problem that's all too clear in the gay world in Tokyo: racism.  While I'll be the first to admit that there is a lot of racism in the gay world in America (mainly against people of African and Asian descent), it's way beyond that here.  On Jack'd, the gay hookup app for smart-phones which is more popular here than Grindr, the number of profiles that say "ONLY JAPANESE" are staggering.  And this isn't just referring to non-Asians.  It's all non-Japanese.  Many profiles decry Korean and Chinese guys as people that are not worth their time.

Now, obviously this isn't always the case.  Many Japanese guys are looking for someone from a culture they are interested in.  Like if they studied abroad in America, they tend to be really attracted to Americans (the reverse of me!).  But it gets kind of out of hand across the board when you combine this racism with the fact that those who might be interested are so passive that it borders on uninterest (and yes, I do know the different between uninterest and being passive).  A usual conversation with an interested-but-passive Japanese guy usually starts with them messaging me.  I then respond enthusiastically and they respond back, enthusiastically.  I send something back, but then conversation either ceases or just slows to a dull, pointless "How's the weather?" trickle.

So, my advice: just take all these Japanese snubs in stride.  I know many a happy interracial couple (well, and many unhappy ones as well).  The key is to put yourself out there as much as possible.  But I guess maybe I'm not the best one to go for advice on that, as I've only had one such Japanese boyfriend which I'll talk about later.

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Introduction

Who I Am: A twenty-something American gay male living in Tokyo.  I have way too much libido than what is healthy and am constantly looking for some action, even if my head is saying something different.  I'm tall, average/stocky build and white, so, kind of the opposite style of most Japanese men.  I have an intermediate command of the Japanese language, so can navigate some gay Japanese websites and communicate with non-English speaking locals.  My sexual role tends to favor heavily towards being a bottom and I revel in sucking cock (and have been told [hopefully truthfully] that I'm quite good at it).  Anal is kind of scary, but I enjoy it mostly for the pleasure of being dominated.  I am trying to be anonymous here because the things which I recount here, well, I'm not too proud of.  If you do figure out who I am, well, fuck it, you probably though I was a depraved son-of-a-bitch in the first place.  Plus, you're a depraved son-of-a-bitch for reading this.

This Blog's Purpose: To recount my sexual exploits in the largest metropolitan area in the world.  I'm going to tell you all of my hot stories, give you all my tips for you to get laid in Japan (well, as best I can...), and give you an inside eye into what it's like being a gay foreigner in Japan.  You can either live vicariously through me or laugh at how much of a stupid slut I am.  Or you can hook me up with hot guys in the Tokyo area ;D  I'm also on the eternal hunt for a hung Japanese guy.  Sadly, the stereotype of Japanese men having small dicks is reasonably true, as many of them are quite small.  But I have encountered some with cocks in the area of 7.5 inches.  I'm looking for an 8 incher (which I might have encountered in the past) and the ultimate goal of a 9+ incher.  I will document my search as best as possible!

Sit back and be prepared to read some sick shit.  BTW, the blog's Japanese title, ヤリチン (yarichin), means "man whore", in case you were wondering.

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